The Love List

I thought about posting this on Valentines Day but I didn’t, so I thought about it and decided F’it it’s still relevant!


Finding that perfect someone is not easy or is it???

Ok here’s the deal I have been in relationships with a couple great girls- not really great to me all the time. But through this tuff time of love and breakups I have been able to learn about myself. I’m sure we all have been there after a break up, so sure at that point that we know exactly what we will not be looking for in the next partner. Well I took it a step further and I encourage you to do the same if you’re still searching. Simple I made a checklist all the things I wanted and the things I didn’t want in this new unseen person. Sounds easy right? Well it was at first, I had a good quick list but I decided to keep adding to it almost everyday. As I got into the mind state of really paying attention to what I want (who I am) I stated picking up on things I normally wouldn’t see until it was too late. I stated holding up an even higher standard of self happiness


Here is a quick part of my Love List (ps position has just been filled- sorry we are not excepting anymore applications)

Physical (most important- haha) ( i suck )
23-28
Cat eyes
Dark hair….

How I treat her
I can be myself
I can talk to her like I talk to j. Brookinz
I can totally relax….

How she treats me
Likes and Values my ideas
Honestly Helps me when I might be making a mistake
Gives me good insight and support
Not afraid to make something happen
Doesn’t just wait for me to make all the moves
Doesn’t create drama…

Personality
Loyal
Giving
Thoughtful
Kind hearted
Sweet and Hopful
Smart and funny
Sarcastic…

The NO’s
No über unhealthy addictions ie cigarettes
Not a cheater!
Not a social attention whore…

Ok here’s the magic:

The mind is constantly at work there is an incomprehensible amount of thoughts and idea that go on in there and our power of concentration is very limited (thanks MTV) so to really make the Magic work (or get that email to God) you have to get it out of your head and into the physical realm. If you want it something physical you have to do something physical. The Jewel was drop for all my black book reader in the beginning at “in the beginning God said” Its worded that way for a specific reason (a clue to creation it’s ACTION). And you can do it will anything I guess I did it with a job once and it totally worked got all but 2 things on my list (important things- but hey it was a long list). And, the Love List I made (funny) I got all but two of those things that time too. And here’s the thing about that you can’t ever fully know yourself there is always something to be learned, something to be changed, something to make you smarter and stronger. Also, someone might need that help/love that only you can give and work them through.

I had gotten to a point where I felt like my list was impossible to be reached but- she came.


But, trust me- if you want change.